Amicable Divorce: Tips for a Successful Settlement

Divorce. Often a time of difficult and heavy decisions about your future, so it can be a daunting and stressful prospect.  Not only does it involve a legally binding union, but it often brings emotional turmoil and financial stress.

It is essential to approach a divorce with an understanding of the legal system and tools and techniques that can help make the process smoother for both parties.

This article provides tips for navigating a smooth and amicable divorce.

What is amicable divorce?

An amicable divorce or separation is one in which you both work together to reach a favourable outcome. Rather than trying to score points or hurt one another, you both compromise and work toward the best result for you and your family.

Understand that the marriage breakup can have impacts on the people around you

    Divorce can have a significant impact on the people around you, including family members, friends, and especially children. Divorce can be particularly challenging for any children involved in the family unit. They may experience a range of emotions such as confusion, sadness, anger, and guilt. It can disrupt their sense of stability and security, leading to changes in behaviour, academic performance, and social interactions.

    Gather a positive support network

    For several reasons, having a positive support network is crucial when going through a divorce. Divorce is an emotionally challenging process. Having a supportive network of family, friends, or even support groups can provide a safe space to express your feelings, vent frustrations, and receive empathy and understanding. It helps you navigate the rollercoaster of emotions that come with the divorce process.

    Be clear and kind.

    Your emotions are running high—don’t let them get the better of you. You may be tempted to let your heart rule your head here. Communicate with your spouse as you would want to be communicated with.

    Leave the threats at the door.

    Heartbreak can do strange things to people.

    When you’re mourning the loss of your relationship, you may find yourself throwing out ultimatums left, right, and centre. Don’t make that mistake. This rarely works as an approach and often leads to the spouses becoming more rigid and alienated and ends up in litigation.

    Make sure to understand the financial implications.

    Divorce can have significant financial implications for both parties.

    It is essential to understand the total costs associated with a divorce and budget accordingly. It includes legal fees, court costs, child custody arrangements, and the division of assets acquired during the marriage.

    Stay active

    Remaining physically active during a divorce can help you manage stress better. Exercise increases endorphins, which are chemicals that induce feelings of happiness. Regular physical activity also helps improve sleep and mental clarity while boosting self-confidence and moods.

    We always aim to help our clients towards a fair, respectful solution, and preserve family relationships as far as possible. Contact us today for an initial conversation about your matter. 

    01753 486 777 or lacourt@astonbond.co.uk

    London Legal walk 2023- A walk filled with adventure

    We did it! The London Legal Walk 10 years and counting….

    Thousands of other legal professionals came together and walked through the streets of London with us in support of a cause close to our hearts.

    The walk has raised vital funds to ensure that legal help reaches our community’s most vulnerable people by offering free legal advice and support.

    So, here’s how it went :

    1. Carey Street

    Upon arriving at the start point of our journey at Carey street, we were instantly amazed by the number of legal professionals taking part in the event alongside the balloon arch, street decor, stalls & the overall atmosphere of positivity.

    And of course the oversized police men!

    2. The start point

    The start of the walk is always the easy part right? Well maybe not so much in our case. With the temperature reaching around 29 degrees, some of us were already sweating buckets!

    We constantly had to remind ourselves the reason we were on the walk and the wider cause behind it in order to motivate us that extra mile.

    3. Ice cream break

    Name a good way to cool down in the blazing heat. Ice cream of course!! Once we had reached our halfway point of 5K we stopped for a cheeky ice cream break. We couldn’t be too tough on ourselves right?

    4. Sightseeing

    Along with the good company, we also had amazing views of London.

    5. The end

    What seemed impossible to some was made possible with motivation, encouragement and a ‘can do’ mindset. We made it the full 10K!

    We then joined the ending street party where we had a much-needed drink.

    Donations are still being accepted and would be gratefully received.  Please visit;

    https://londonlegalsupporttrust.enthuse.com/pf/aston-bond-solicitors-2023

    Work experience at Aston Bond

    Completing working experience at Aston Bond was a completely professional experience which provided me with invaluable insight into the practice of law. As a first year Law student, I was keen to develop my professional identity and Aston Bond assisted me greatly.

    From my first day I was greeted with my own workspace and introduced to each member of staff. This immediately helped me to feel at ease alongside the friendly atmosphere in the office which I was able to familiarise myself with over the week.

    During my work experience, I never felt shy of asking questions, even if it wasn’t specific to my set tasks, I felt comfortable inquiring if I had any questions about the relevant wider practice of law. This in my opinion is of paramount importance as I believe that work experience should predominantly be learning experience.

    The insight I gained throughout the week I would also attribute to the office layout, with all members of staff being located on one floor. I felt that this created an easy way for me to access to the departments and observe the specialist skills of members of staff whilst they were working. To further enhance my experience, I was able to attend different client meetings, shadow solicitors and communicate with clients by drafting letters and preparing relevant documents such as residential conveyancing initial letters to clients.

    Furthermore, the office dynamic of Aston Bond, which is sociable and yet still focused, has furthered my ambition to become a solicitor. This was because of the realistic portrayal of the routine of a solicitor and legal firm generally which I was able to experience.

    I highly recommend Aston Bond for work experience as in my experience I was treated with nothing but respect and pragmatism. Thank you to all the staff at Aston Bond for creating such a positive experience for me.

    By Ella Bampton

    Hayfever – A guide for employers

    That time of year is upon us when pollen levels have increased and hay fever season is here.

    Recent studies show that nearly one in five people in the UK suffer from hay fever and have taken time off from their workplace due to their symptoms. This could indefinitely be affecting productivity levels for workplaces in the UK.

    So what can you do to look after your employees and ensure your workplace creates an environment that minimises the symptoms of hay fever?

    • Keep windows in the offices closed as this adds the benefit of keeping the pollen out of the office, ultimately relieving some symptoms.
    • Keep the office clean and free from dust as much as you can.
    • Inform employees on the weather forecast for information about pollen count levels and advise them to avoid going outdoors when the pollen count is Medium or High.
    • Avoid keeping indoor plants in the office as they release pollen and can trigger many individuals.

    At Aston Bond, we believe supporting employees with hay fever is a crucial aspect of creating an inclusive and productive workplace.  

    For any employment queries please contact imardarescu@astonbond.co.uk, our head of employment here at Aston Bond.

    Q&A with our conveyancers

    At Aston Bond we are often faced with many queries about our services and conveyancing in general. Therefore, we’ve pulled together our handy guide to break down the most frequently asked questions to set your mind at ease.

    What is conveyancing?

    Conveyancing is an area of the law (and process) relating to the legal transfer of property ownership.

    How long will my process take?

    How long depends on several factors, such as how many buyers and sellers are involved in the chain. We do our best to progress your transaction as quickly as possible.

    What is the difference between exchange and completion?

    Exchange of contracts normally takes place a week or two before completion. On exchange, you are legally agreeing to complete the sale or purchase on the specified date and at the specified price. Once exchange has happened you can prepare for your moving day.

    Completion is the day when you will move into your new home or hand over the keys to the property you are selling.

    What needs to be done before the exchange of contracts?

    There is a long list of work to be done prior to exchanging contracts including;

    • obtaining your mortgage offer
    • ordering searches
    • raising enquiries
    • checking title
    • liaising with your chain to discuss a date for completion.

    What is a conveyancing chain?

    A conveyancing chain is where there is more than one buyer and seller in the process of buying and selling a house. This means that the property completion is dependent on the other parties to the chain.

    Can someone pull out?

    Until contracts are exchanged, someone can pull out of a property sale or purchase. Once contracts have been exchanged, they are legally bound to complete the transaction.

    What is an indemnity insurance?

    If you are selling a property which has had building work carried out but you no longer have (or never had) building regulations certificates or a guarantee for the work, the buyer’s legal representative may find this problematic, delaying or even jeopardising your sale.

    In this case, you or the buyer can take out indemnity insurance, which will cover the defect if the work has not been carried out satisfactorily.

    What is a deed of transfer?

    • The transfer deed (TR1) is a formal document which transfers the property from the vendor to the buyer.
    • Before completion, the deed of transfer needs to be agreed by both parties and then signed by the seller, with an independent witness.
    • You will probably be asked to sign and return this before exchange of contracts.

    At Aston Bond, we have wide experience in all areas of selling and buying property.

    If you would like to speak to one of our expert conveyancers, call us on :

    01753 486 777 or email kconner@astonbond.co.uk

    Welcoming Sherwood studios to BNI networking

    Last Friday, Kulbir Conner (Head of Residential Property here at Aston Bond) invited Tarun Puri (Founder and CEO of Sherwood Studios) as her guest to see for himself the value that being a BNI member can bring.

    Sherwood Studios is a recording studio based in Maidenhead, Berkshire. Their aim is to be able to provide opportunities for young aspiring creatives and artists across Berkshire.  They provide a creative space to come to and where they are able to express themselves freely and without judgment within a professional studio setting.

    BNI is an organisation set up for professionals who help each other grow their businesses through their relationships, commitment and mutual referrals.

    Aston Bond has been a member of Windsor BNI for many years’ and we value the long-lasting relationships we have built over that time.  It is as much about being able to provide our clients with trusted referrals when asked as about us getting business. 

    Tarun was made to feel very welcome by all BNI members at Windsor and he thoroughly enjoyed meeting everyone.

    Please visit https://sherwood-studios.com/ for any more queries!

    Vaping in the workplace

    The use of e-cigarettes, or vaping, has increased in popularity over recent years. Where does this leave employers and what approach should they take to vaping at work rules?

    By making yourself aware of the guidelines in place, employers can communicate a clear policy to all employees.

    What the law says

    Smoking tobacco products in an enclosed space was outlawed in the summer 2007 (via the Health Act 2006), a ruling which led to a ban on smoking in offices, schools, and any other place that fell under the umbrella of this law.

    However, the situation for vaping is different.

    The use of e-cigarettes is not (currently) covered by this law, as they don’t burn any ingredients like a traditional cigarette does, and as the name suggests, vapes produce vapour, not smoke.

    There have been recently numerous reports however on the potential (and largely as yet unknown) risks of vaping.  Recent studies have shown that vaping is not as innocuous as people were at first led to believe.  Further research is being carried out but it may be the case that it will be a while until we have a full picture.

    In addition, concerns over passively inhaling the vapour that vaping creates have not yet been researched but this is no doubt only a matter of time.

    Employers have a general duty of health and safety to all employees equally. Whilst it is largely accepted that vapes are a useful tool to aid smokers to stop smoking, this should be balanced out against all staff.  For instance, some employees may suffer from conditions such as asthma which would make even passively inhaling vapour riskier.

    Bearing the above in mind, a clear policy to employees will stand employers in good stead and provide clarity for all.

    Employers vaping policy

    An employer may allow employees who vape, to do so indoors. If that is the decision, a designated room may be the answer. 

    However, this is not necessarily advisable and all health and safety issues should be considered so that all employees are protected.  To avoid any future problems, it is undoubtedly safer to ask employees to vape outside in a designated area where possible. This may indirectly aid those whose intention with vaping is to ultimately “stop smoking”.

    Importantly, vaping is still unlawful for anyone under the age of 18 and employers should be supporting this by ensuring vaping does not take place anywhere near where children or young teens are present.

    Ultimately, it is imperative that any rules are considered in light of the individual workplace and then communicated clearly to all staff.

    Vaping etiquette at work

    Employees should always be encouraged to vape considerately.  For instance, vapers could use a discreet vape device with minimal vapour and to save vaping for designated break times only – similar to smokers.  Wherever they vape, vapers should be aware of their surroundings.

    Vaping at work can be a tricky road to navigate, especially when many people are still unfamiliar with what an e-cigarette actually is, or unsure about how it works.

    For advice on specific issues such as vaping at work, please contact Ilinca Mardarescu (Head of Employment) at imardarescu@astonbond.co.uk or call 01753 486777

    Q&A with Kanchana Kumari

    It’s Learning At Work Week, so we have taken this opportunity to ask members of our team what learning is like at Aston Bond. Today we speak to Trainee Solicitor Kanchana Kumari who specialises in the Wills & Probate team…

    Tell us about your role and the department you are in….

    I am a trainee solicitor in the Private Client department and my role varies from drafting Wills, Codicils, Deed of Variations/Revocation, Lasting Powers of Attorney, to Inheritance Tax forms for probate purposes. Alongside this, I oversee all administrative tasks involved in the department which include liaising with various companies to obtain and collate asset information regarding matters of estate administration.

    What is the support like at Aston Bond….

    I am constantly encouraged by my team to take on new matters which will further my training. I expressed interest in Contentious Probate which was met with encouragement from the Litigation department to deal with matters such as Larke v Nugus requests which has been a great learning curve for me.

    What is your favourite thing about being a trainee solicitor…

    My favourite thing about being a trainee solicitor is that the role is all about gaining new experiences and trying your hand at different tasks from different departments. I am getting a better understanding of the area I would like to specialise in which allows me to feel more competent to handle my own matters as a Solicitor in the future.

    What are you looking forward to in the future…

    I look forward to qualifying into the Private Client department as a Solicitor and expanding my knowledge and experiences further.

    Our LIVE chatbot

    In the world we live in today more people are comfortable with live chat technology.

    At Aston Bond, we are investors in our people. That’s why we’ve created a live chat which is fast, efficient and convenient.

    With live chat, we reply to you immediately within our working ours.

    For any queries or uncertainty on how to use our bot please contact lbhatti@astonbond.co.uk

    Teacher strikes- How it affects employers

    Many teachers across thousands of schools in England have been going on strike to raise their thoughts over disputes relating to pay. Teacher strikes can have a significant impact on both employees and employers so we’ve put together a simple guide explaining your rights.

    Here are some ways that teacher strikes can affect employers and employees:

    1. Disruption of work: Teacher strikes can disrupt the normal functioning of schools, which can in turn impact employees. For example, if teachers go on strike, students may not attend school, which could affect parents’ ability to work.
    2. Financial losses: If schools are closed due to a teacher strike, it can result in financial losses for employers. This is because parents may have to take time off work to care for their children, thereby affecting productivity at a crucial time.
    3. Difficulty finding substitute teachers: During a teacher strike, it can be difficult to find substitute teachers to fill in for the striking teachers. This can make it challenging for schools to continue operating and can also be a burden on employees (and thereby employers) who may have to scramble to find alternative solutions.

    Taking time off

    If your child’s school is closed, or your normal childcare arrangements are disrupted due to an emergency, you have a statutory right as an employee to take unpaid time off to look after your child.

    There are no time limits on how much time you can take off, but it should be a “reasonable” amount and employers should try to be flexible.

    If an employer refuses your request, it must justify the reasons why.

    Whether you get paid to take time off work is down to your employer

    You should check if your employer has a specific policy in your contract that allows paid leave for emergencies. Most strike action is announced in advance and your employer may therefore expect you to have other arrangements already in place.

    Other options to consider include asking to take the time off under your paid annual holiday allowance. Alternatively, ask your employer if there are other arrangements it can put in place, such as enabling you to work from home or swap shifts.

    Communicate with your employer

    If you are planning on requesting unpaid or paid leave due to a childcare emergency, you should let your employer know as soon as possible. Set out why you haven’t been able to make alternative childcare arrangements and what arrangements could be made to mitigate your time off work.

    Overall, teacher strikes can have a range of effects on employers, and it is important for employers to be prepared for these potential impacts and to have strategies in place for managing them. For more information please contact Head of employment on imardarescu@astonbond.co.uk or 01753 486777.